Finding your ideal relationship begins with an honest assessment of yourself. This involves a full understanding of your strengths and weaknesses and knowing what you can offer in a relationship. If you are a person with complete self-confidence, you should have the courage to objectively and impartially view yourself as you really are, not as you wish you could be. You just have to accept the truth about yourself.

You are likely to have your distinctive characteristics and qualities, and those which you have developed till this moment. These make you very worthy of a close relationship. You tend to attract someone who shares many of your characteristics, and unlikely to attract one who is so different in character. If you want to attract an outstanding person who is very much better than an average person, you have to be one yourself.

It’s important that you be carefully selective about whom you want to closely associate yourself with. It’s in your best interests to mix with the right people, and stay away from those who are negative, those who are repeatedly critical of others and those who constantly complain about anyone and anything. What you want are people who accept you for who you are, those who actively support what you do and those with whom you share mutual respect.

Stop living in the past!!

We know the past is gone and there isn’t much we can do about it, yet we spend considerable amount of time thinking of the past, and often wish things could have been different and better. Everyone does it not without their own good reasons. To some, recalling a past event still causes them emotional or mental suffering or distress. For others, it’s a feeling of pleasure or deep affection for a period in the past.

Most often we feel a lot of anger towards someone for something they did to us or for their failure to do something for us. It could have made an enormous difference to our life if they had not done or had done that something for us. Or one of or both our parents treated us very badly as a child. Whatever the reason, we are unforgiving and that precisely is the reason that a past event can engross our mind to the exclusion of other thoughts. That is unhealthy mentally unless we learn to forgive and free ourselves.

There are times we harbour a feeling of sadness and guilt about something we did or something we didn’t do. We disclosed to a friend some highly personal information which we later regretted telling. Or we delayed our last monthly visit to our mother and she passed away before we could visit her. Since then, we have been feeling the sharp pang of regret for delaying the visit as if we knew beforehand of her impending demise. Such feelings of guilt and sorrow can only continue to haunt us for as long as we remember or think of it.

Wife is just like an Open Office?

After all this time I am using Microsoft Office software. yesterday I started a new day with free software (Open Office) ... before this I had to use the same software, but this time I intend to use it without coercion. Probably not too much if I say, sometimes something free is better than something that needs to be paid.

What is important I do not have to fear being sued by the authorities for using pirated software. Not only me, the present scenario shows widespread use of pirated software and imitate activities.

The story of free things better than the paid-up reminds me of the story of people who are married but still subscribe to a prostitute. They're willing to spend money for drawing temporary satisfaction, while beautiful beautiful wife waiting at home and hope for her husband work hard for the family.

UMNO Belum Bersedia!!: Pakatan Tetap Berpeluang Menang?

Pagi tadi duduk sarapan bersama rakan.. dah lama tak berjumpa rakan sekampung... masing-masing dah berkeluarga dan ada tanggungan. 

Perbualan berkisar kepada beban yang ditanggung akibat kenaikan harga barang. Masakan tidak jika dulu setin susu pekat cuma RM1.75 tapi kini mana mungkin dapat kembali kepada harga tersebut, sekurang-kurangnya RM2.00.. 

Bercakap pasa tekanan kenaikan harga barang keperluan, timbul cerita tentang KR1M. Meskipun beliau merupakan ahli sebuah parti pembangkang, namun beliau menyambut baik langkah kerajaan memperkenalkan KR1M kepada rakyat yang mana langkah ini dapat mengurangkan beban rakyat dalam menanggung kos hidup yang semakin meningkat..

Times New Roman: How it begin?

Stanley Morrison

Citing the Times New Roman, certainly many people who know. This character type is used as the standard typing letters in the world. His whereabouts widely known by people from various professions. However, as many of us who know the history of the creation of letters of this type of Times New Roman?

The letter was designed by an English named Stanley Morrison. He was born on May 6, 1889 in Wanstead, United Kingdom. Stanley grew as a figure that does not have knowledge of printing, but in later life he occupied many important positions in the world. Extensive knowledge in the case of typographical printing recovered since becoming a member of The Pelican Press.

God made him feel his love in a lot of reading religious books, even the first tipografinya paper also goes to church. Once out of The Pelican Press, he worked for Cloister Press in Manchester. Many of the best designs produced while he worked at this company. Again, his work reflects the background of many Catholic churches, it is shown in the illustrations and all kinds of decorations that they use. Because it is so hated the war, making it able to move antiperangnya jailed for four years (1914-1918).

Khalid Ibrahim Lebih Amanah??: Mat Sabu...

Menjawab isu perlantikan Dr Ahmad Yunus sebagai Exco Kerajaan Negeri Selangor yang tidak diberikan porfolio Hal Ehwal Agama, Timbalan Presiden Pas Mat Sabu telah memberikan kenyataan beliau kepada Harakah Daily:

KUALA LUMPUR, Jan 20: Timbalan Presiden PAS, Haji Mohamad Sabu (gambar) berkata, bukan semestinya orang belajar agama sahaja yang boleh mengambil tugas Exco hal ehwal agama, tetapi perlukan seorang Muslim yang amanah, jujur dan ikhlas.

Lagipun, katanya, Pembantu Exco Hal Ehwal Agama adalah kekal dipegang Adun PAS iaitu Dr Shafei Abu Bakar (Bangi).

Beliau berkata demikian ketika menyokong hujah Ketua Penerangan PAS Pusat Datuk Tuan Ibrahim Tuan Man dalam isu jawatan exco agama kerajaan Selangor.

Mungkin bagi Mat Sabu, jawatan pembantu exco itu amat besar kuasanya dan mampu untuk melangkaui kehendak Exco Hal Ehwal Islam. Namun harus kita ingat, biasanya jawatan pembantu ini hanya untuk memudahkan kerja-kerja Exco dan tidak memiliki sebarang kuasa memutus dalam peruntukan undang-undang. Oleh yang demikian, jawatan tersebut bukanlah sesuatu yang seharusnya dibanggakan dan dijadikan kayu pengukur penguasaan PAS dalam Hal Ehwal Islam di Selangor.

It's A Silly Issue!!...

Blogger and media freedom today has become a hot topic when the heat of bloggers Papagomo and his close allies Parpukari can not be controlled by the Media Unit of UMNO.

Salhan K Ahmad, who wrote the article tried to cite the statement made by Tun Faisal in respect of this issue. Unfortunately, his actions are trying to provoke and manipulate the issue are inaccessible when he was reproached by Tun Fisal.

Salhan questioned the reasonableness of the statements made by Tun Faisal about the inability to control these bloggers.

In principle, these bloggers known as a freelance writer as I am and not tied to any individual or political party in their writing. Therefore not surprising that Tun Faisal statement is not in contravention of what an independent blogger.

Siapa Ganti Dr Hassan Ali? Dr Ahmad Yunus Atau Khalid Ibrahim?

Dr Ahmad Yunus Hairi Exco Bari Kerajaan Negeri Selangor 

Portfolio reshuffle Islamic Affairs held by the Selangor Assemblyman from PAS members are submitted to the Chief Minister, Tan Sri Abdul Khalid Ibrahim of People's Justice Party (PKR) to prove the dignity of an Islamic party PAS has been stepped on.

PAS in the opposition's position is seen threatened, and portray the party's assemblymen in Selangor are not eligible to take such an important portfolio.

Passes need to explain to the public Is the the party is out of qualified candidates to hold the portfolio of Islamic Affairs until the position had to carried by the Chief Minister of Selangor, Tan Sri Abdul Khalid Ibrahim. Why they did not defend the religion portfolio should be held by PAS, or PAS has no eligible candidates in the state hold that position? PAS should be to the front when not appointed executive council of the party candidates, the situation is so shocking and people getting confused by the policy.

Thinking On Your Feet: Staying cool under pressure

When you can translate your thoughts and ideas into coherent speech quickly, you ensure your ideas are heard. You also come across as being confident, persuasive, and trustworthy.

Confidence is key when learning to think on your feet. When you present information, give an opinion or provide suggestions, make sure you know what you are talking about and that you are well informed. This doesn't mean you have to know everything about everything, but if you are reasonably confident in your knowledge of the subject, that confidence will help you to remain calm and collected even if you are put unexpectedly in the hot seat.

The secret of thinking on your feet is to be prepared: learn some skills and tactics, and do some preparation for situations that might put you under pressure. Then when you do find yourself faced with unexpected questions and debate, you'll be ready to draw on these tactics and preparation, and so stay poised while you compose your thoughts and prepare your response. Here are some tips and tactics:

you have to be as relaxed as possible, in order for your voice to remain calm and for your brain to "think".

Is there a justice? Saiful Bukhari, Last day of Appeal...

Tomorrow is the last day to file an appeal for Saiful sodomy. Some people think that when Anwar was found not guilty, then the fault is Saiful Bukhari. But as Anwar advocated in respect of the courts and legal transparency in Malaysia, the court's decision is still not final until the results of the appeal filed by Saiful Bukhari. To date there is no voices either for or against the appeal.

In this context we can see whether the extent of transparency of government and NGOs who fought for Saiful to continue the struggle in ensuring homosexual agenda has no place in Malaysia. Maybe the government after the absence of Dr Mahathir giving too much face to the Bar Council, or non-governmental organizations that openly 'prostitute' themselves to certain political parties and their openness in destroying the sovereignty and national security ...

Finally, we see how fundamental in shaping the country as enshrined in the federal constitution abolished one by one ... Although Islam has been enshrined in the constitution, but today more and more people are not Muslims bold to question the propriety of placing pelembagaan Islam as official religion. Similarly, the sovereignty of the Malay rulers and the rights of the Malays who have agreed through the social contract before independence and the formation of Malaya and Malaysia.

Today there are Muslim leaders who reject other Islamic leaders who tried to fight for the Islamic Sharia, just because the leaders acting decisively against those who do not respect Islam as the official religion. Such leaders dismissed and the dismissal was not done by those who are accused of being a secular state, but by a government that put Islam as a platform.

Today, there are Islamic leaders who tried to repeal the sodomy law is alleged to have outdated and no longer relevant. The proposal also comes from a new leader who is released from the charge of sodomy, as a result of the prosecution's mistake in getting the DNA to serve as evidence in the trial of the case. Sometimes wondered whether the court for politicians? Those who have an influence? What would happen to people? Do Saiful Bukhari has taken care of his fate?

There is also the Chairman of the Sacred Society who is not afraid to threaten the government because she knows, the government will remain at his command for fear called not liberal.

Today we can see Malay students which preoccupied with the political street, illegal assembly without thinking that they should focus on education as non-Malay students. Their political blackmailing the government with atrocities allegedly prejudicial to freedom of expression by students. Each law has the advantage that sometimes we can not see in the short term. Students should have which maturity of thought and not excessive in thinking, sometimes their actions are seen as people who is not educated through the reckless actions. They are seen easily seduced by propaganda, while these people are educated and successful in education. But unfortunately this level of thinking like a student does not have a quality called tertiary students.

In conclusion, we can see many suggestions were made to return the country to the Days of Ignorance which is not restricted by law. Certainly those who became Ignorance does not feel guilty because they want freedom like animal who do not ashamed of nudity. They feel that people comply with or be bound by the laws of Islam as a rigid or not to follow the time.